- Do you have challenges and difficulties setting boundaries between yourself and those around you? This impacts our lives, in the ways of money, personal and romantic relationships and in the workplace. By knowing and enforcing your healthy boundaries, you won’t be taken advantage of by “vampires” trying to take what is rightfully yours. What does this mean? Those who don’t appreciate your time or money and those are looking to take advantage of a kind soul take-away gifts and resources intended for those who truly deserve them. By setting a healthy boundary, whether it’s a loved one or a colleague, you can prevent them from unfairly taking your time and resources from you.